A's Happiness Blogs

    One thing that frighten me the most when I started blogging and doing social media was the way I came across to other people. I am already a shy person, so when I decided to start sharing a piece of myself a few years back I was scared.   I saw how people would respond to others on their social media platform. Some people were loving, and kind while others were judgmental and negative.    But the one thing that I learned from doing this for so long, was I needed to be myself. It was one thing for me to try to be what others wanted me to be, but I had to learn that I was not being trueful to myself.    See, when I make the choice to share my life, I was trying to be like others that I saw on the internet. And to be honest, I mimic some of the things that I saw others do thinking that I would get the same response that they were receiving from others. I quickly learned that that was not the approach that I needed to take.    Then I had to t...

  Know your Worth     As a little girl growing up in North Carolina, I have always had a thought of who I am and who I wanted to be when I grew up.   I knew I wanted to be in the nursing field, and I knew I wanted to go into the military. That was my dream to wear an Air Force or Navy uniform. I knew I would look good in one of those.   But as I got older, I found myself letting others dictate to me how I was going to live my life and who I was going to become. It took me a long time to realize that I needed to change the way I saw myself.      For a long time, I did not know my worth.      The meaning of Knowing Your Worth.  You may be asking yourself,    “What does know my worth means?”     Well, I am glad you ask.    Knowing your worth simply means how you value yourself, or how you see yourself NO MATTER how others may value you.    Often, we let people have a say so in who we are and...